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Mrs. Lufuno

Matsepane

working in Pretoria at the time and he
also wanted to buy his own car.
However, I advised him not to because
his credit record was very bad. I told him
that we could both use my car. He would
take my car and come back drunk at
night. He started staying out late, and he
would drive to Pretoria every weekend
and sometimes not come back home.
He started having lots of girlfriends
again. I got fed-up and I decided to take
back the car keys. It became a problem
that he even wanted to divorce me.

After I took the car back, he went and
bought a car for himself. I did not mind
because I thought he would be
responsible. He continued staying out
late and drinking alcohol. Sometimes he
would be involved in accidents and he
HUSBAND sign and we are now married out of would blame me saying I bewitched him
community of property with accrual. I and that is the reason he got involved in
fter we got back together, I told him that I also wanted a wedding an accident.
wanted to make sure that we ring, which he later bought for me and
Awere not going to break-up we got a certain Pastor to bless the rings I fell pregnant with our third child in
again. I told him that Lobola was not for us. 2012. We decided to get a house and a
enough. I told him that I wanted him to certain lady promised to sell him a house
marry me. As a Lawyer he explained all in Vosloorus. We gave a notice that we
types of matrimonial regimes ranking CHALLENGES were moving out of the flat. When we
from customary marriage, marriage in AFTER GETTING were ready to move to the new house,
community of property, marriage with the people who were staying in the
ante nuptial contract with and without MARRIED house that we were supposed to move
accrual etc. Due to his reckless credit life n 2012, we moved in together and we to did not want to move out. We had to
and the consequences that I would be move to my mother-in-law’s RDP house
exposed to his creditors I decided to were both staying in a flat in in Pretoria with all our furniture and the
marry him out of community of property IJohannesburg. I then bought a car as I children. It became very hard for us as
worked late shifts and did not want to
and signed ante nuptial contract. use public transport at night. He was we had to drive to Johannesburg to get
Thereafter we went to Home Affairs to to work every day and my elder son was

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